Welcome to the latest episode of Unlocking Your Greatness with Wendy Bjork. Wendy is an international bestselling author, nationally syndicated columnist, inspirational speaker and founder of HeartsOfWellness.com.
Her mission is to empower women navigating Multiple Sclerosis to build a strong Foundation of Wellbeing: One Whole-istic™ Step at a Time.
She understands this journey well, as she has been living with Multiple Sclerosis for over three decades, since the age of 15. She has been inspired to lead other women on a healing path after realizing the gaps in care that affect so many. Her techniques have been personally tested and embraced by many
She is the proud Momma to two amazing young men and in her free time she loves to read all about ancient history and travel to either the majestic mountains or the peaceful beaches.
Why is it Important to Provide Emotional Support to Others?
Emotional support is a great way to show care and compassion for others, no matter what they’re dealing with. It can take many forms, including listening to someone talk about their feelings, providing words of reassurance and validation, showing empathy, or even offering material assistance. This kind of support can make a big difference in people’s lives, helping them cope with stress levels and improve their mood and overall health.
Often, the best thing you can do for those in need is simply to listen and empathize with them. When you hear them vent about their experiences, try not to interrupt and give them your full attention. Ask open-ended questions that allow for more explanation and use non-verbal cues to let them know you’re genuinely listening.
While it may be tempting to jump in with unsolicited advice, that can actually backfire. Your loved one is already having a hard time dealing with their situation and may feel frustrated that you’re trying to talk them out of how they’re feeling. Instead, you should reassure them that what they’re experiencing is normal and that you’re there for them.
Be familiar with mental health challenges so you can tailor your emotional support to their specific needs. For example, if your friend is struggling with an eating disorder, you can learn more about eating disorders and their symptoms so that you can have a better understanding of what they’re going through. You can also encourage your loved one to seek professional help if they’re struggling with a mental illness.
Consistently letting your loved ones know that you think of them and miss them helps to remind them they’re not alone. You can do this by making sure that they’re included in your plans or letting them know when you’ll be visiting. You can also send them text messages or emails consistently to remind them that you’re thinking of them, which is a simple yet effective way to keep them in your thoughts.
While you should be careful not to overwhelm your loved ones, it’s okay to offer them some physical or material support when appropriate. This can include running errands for your friend, providing them with food, or taking a break from chores to spend some time with them. If you’re concerned about how much to do or if it’s appropriate, consider reaching out to a support group for more ideas on how to provide physical and material support.
The most important reason to provide emotional support to others is that it shows your love and compassion for those in need. Although it’s not always easy, it can help them to cope with their emotions and experiences and feel less alone. In addition, it can have a positive impact on your own mood and mental health. It can also encourage healthy coping behaviors and help you build stronger relationships with those around you. So, why not give it a go? It may be difficult at first, but with practice you’ll become a pro.
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